Romance Her With Something Special

Hold it, Buddy. Hold it, Lady. When's the last time you did something special for that special someone? Not just any old thing. Something that showed you were interested only in pleasing him or her. Something that took some thought, some time to get it together, some energy to pull it off. Something only you could do to make only your partner feel special.

Chances are, life being what it is, that it's been some time. Think about it. It has been awhile. Well, there's no time like today to get it together to show him or her that they're something special, that they're important to you, that you love them. It's always a good idea to show the one you're with that he or she's the one and only.

Need some help? A well-turned romantic evening is always a winner. Do everything yourself. Start off with some invitations. You know, the kind you send through the mail, or even email. (But a real invitation through snail mail gets extra points!) Title it with something along these lines: Enjoy a Night of Fun, Love, and Romance! Include some coupons that you've made in PhotoShop using a favorite picture of yours. Call them 'Love Coupons.' Or, if you lack those skills, you can always find something in a local card or gift shop to fill the bill.

As for the 'love coupons,' put something on them such as, you may redeem these coupons on the evening of --- and enter the date. Add something like you may request any such act that makes you happy when it comes to intimacy or romance. That allows your partner to bring some things to the party, maybe something new and exciting.

Have some fun yourself and write suggestions on the coupons. One for a foot massage, perhaps. Or one for necking. Or one for you can figure them out. Just be playful and creative, maybe even explore new possibilities. Almost anything that will make him or her feel special and loved will do.

Don't forget the dinner to make the evening a success. Making it yourself will certainly score extra points. But, if you're not a chef, ordering it in shouldn't hurt at all. The point is to share an intimate time with your lover. Do whatever makes the most sense, that makes you feel the most comfortable.

But, should you order dinner, personalize the meal with some fresh flowers on the table, light some favorite scented candles, and open a special bottle of wine you know will be enjoyed. These touches will add that extra bit of thoughtfulness that's so important.

Watch out for those 'love coupons'! Of course, your partner can redeem them at any time. But, things may take a turn toward the intensely romantic and you may end up with a rather cool meal eaten at a rather late time of the evening. But, remember, loves conquers all.

Pulling together a smashing evening as above, will be a part of your fond memories together. Your partner will remember it for a long time. Your relationship will find new ground for flourishing. Your imagination, your creativity, will deepen your understanding and love of each other. And, who knows, you might find out some surprising new side of your lover, a side that will intrigue you and keep your time together fresh.

Share The Path With Your Loved Ones

Do you and your significant other need a simple romantic way to bring yourselves closer? Are you not getting enough quality time together? Is it just too hard to make that time? Well, you've both got careers, you've got your families, you've got all the other little details of hectic lives that take so much time. It's hard keeping the perspective, the view that your partner needs time, too.

You each know that your success in the world isn't handed to you. You must have a plan, you must have a strategy. Short-term goals, long-term goals, both of these need a stick-to-it attitude. But, what's success without the success of your intimate relationship? As with your other 'must-do's', you've got to make space for the significant other in your life. A business client is no more important that your intimate client. A tee time for a business partner is not more important than a lunch with your life partner.

'Sharing' is the operative word when considering time together. It doesn't mean being in a place that just allows you time 'with' each other. It means sharing time together in a place where you can be with each other. An example of a place that doesn't allow you to be with each other is a movie theater.

How can a trip to the movie theater be a good place or a good way to be with each other? Think about it. Sure, you're together. But, you can't talk without getting shushed. You can't see each other. If the movie is any good, you're mind is on a subject far afield of anything having to do with your lives. So, you're basically sitting in the dark ignoring each other. That's not spending time together.

Rather than focusing on the troubles or treasures of the silver screen, you want to focus on each other. The almost perfect way to do this is excuse yourselves from whoever is sharing space with you, friends family or pets, and go for a walk. It can be a long walk, or a short walk. Let what you need from each other dictate the time you spend. You can hold hands, you can look at each other while you speak, the air is fresh, the walk itself gets the blood flowing. It's the perfect venue for togetherness.

With a walk, where you're going doesn't matter. How long you're gone doesn't matter. It focuses on the two of you and the things you need or want to talk about. Sometimes, walks can be quiet. And maybe that's important, for awhile. But, since you two obviously care about each other, talk will ensue.

Walks are easy to schedule, too. You needn't be shy about saying, "Let's go for a walk." By walking together, you're alone, whether it's a busy mall or a quiet street. You're really together. You can discuss important things, things that matter, issues that need resolution. A walk is a great way to clear the air. You're both in a relaxed place, a neutral place. There is no need for defense building, no need to fear discussing sensitive subjects.

The next time you and your significant other find yourselves in a stuffy room, and the moon is peeking through the crack in the curtains, grab his or hand and go for a walk. It's free. You don't have to be gone for a long time. In fact, you might want to set up a walk time each day. A time for the two of you alone, maybe just before or after dinner. Your bodies, your minds, and your relationship will thank you.

A Sweet Gift for Her

Sweets, they talk to her and get her in just the right mood. Sweets say "I really love you", and the intimacy ball will get rolling and help to do just that. An intimacy ball rolling will give more than candy and chocolate her way, it will spark your evening. It will make her feel sensual and important. Tell her you love her with something she will eat up, literally, she'll love the thought you put into this. We all have a favorite sweet, a candy we like the best, find out what hers is, if you do not know this already. And find out why this is the one she prefers. Now get a little stuffy toy and card to make the package complete and send it to her.

Sending it in the mail to her will absolutely surprise her and she will be flattered. Try and be there when the mail comes and watch as she takes the mail in, sees the package, and is in total disbelief, but happy. Because once she gets past the realization that you actually sent her something in the mail, she will be so thrilled. This is something she will remember for a lifetime, the creativeness and thoughtfulness that you put into sending her this little "love" package.

We all cherish these little special moments, they help to intensify our love and emotions. Nothing tells your partner that you love them more than surprising them every now and then. Coming up with something a little extra special to let them know you care. You will both benefit from the experience.

If you don't want to send chocolates or candies, you can send her other items that will satisfy the sweet tooth. Flavorful oil that are aromatic are a great item to send. There are a few that are sure to please, like Shunga's Aphrodisiac Oil or Karma Sutra's Oil of Love. They offer sweet and spicy oils and are a real romantic gift to share between the two of you and really help to heat up your evening.

Just apply these vibrantly colored oils to your partners body, (which are water based so you do not have to worry about stain, they wash out of any material) and erotically remove it from the curves and crevices on her body. Lick, kiss, and amaze them while giving them a sensual experience. This helps increase your romance and bring you closer as one. A great foreplay experience you won't want to pass up, making your sexual arousal both sensual and exciting.

Kama Sutra also has a Earthly Delights romance gift set which will absolutely drive her crazy with desire, Honey Dust. This is a product which will both flavorfully and aromatically please both you and your partner. It has an amazing honeysuckle smell and flavor to it. It is light, sweet and wonderful. And if you think that sounds good, the application of it is intense. You can use the feather duster, which is included, to dip the end in the Honey Dust and let your mind go with the flow and dust it over your lovers body to revel in its effects.

Amazing too, the powder leaves a smooth feel to the skin when touched, making the experience both arousing and erotic for both of you. The Honey Dust powder is heavenly. So next time you're in the market to surprise and delight your partner, sweeten her up with a little Honey Dust. The candy and chocolates will never disappoint her, but the Kama Sutra products will certainly delight her.